Nine Centered Relating by Alokanand Diaz

Every bond between any two human beings is inherently perfect in its fractal purpose until it becomes distorted and disempowering by the rules of the genetic imperative to reproduce and the homogenized roles of the Not-Self, where a man and a woman are merely a domesticated version of their true original nature.

The purpose of seven centered relationships has always been determined by the power of the genetic imperative to reproduce, and submitted to the protocols through which sexuality is controlled in its social manifestations by the regulations established through the three social channels in the Rave Body Graph. It is based on those social regulations that the Not-Self mind feels compelled to CHOOSE the ‘best’ sources of knowledge (12/22), the best friends (37/40), and the best partners possible 59/6), in order to fulfill the purpose of its homogenized and mundane agenda.

There is probably no greater marker of the difference between homogenized Not-Self interactions and a truly differentiated social protocol that is based on an individual sense of correctness and inherent purpose in communication.

You see, when ‘correctness’ becomes an issue between any two humans that are connected through the emotionality that is determined by the survival spirit of sexual energy, the emergence of ‘blame’ and the assumption that the correctness of one side implies the lack of it in the other, are simply unavoidable projections that tend to kidnap and distort the consciousness of both participants, leading to overreactions and cathartic expression of feelings.

Instead, when the emotionality that is at the core of what drives any two human beings to meet in a certain place and time is derived from their individual correctness, then the purpose is never primarily in the mating of two bodies and their corresponding souls merging into one, but in the potential communion of two separate and differentiated sources of human awareness meeting as themselves. This is not something that can be chosen by any kind of mental speculation, but only something that can be ‘recognized’ and ‘responded’ to when it happens. It can also be ‘initiated’ and ‘reflected’ when it comes with the natural elements of life, but it cannot be chosen.

Ra used to say that communication can be sexier and more charming than the sexual act in itself, when individual self-expression is a medium for the differentiated awareness of being that we call ‘outer authority’. Everything else is secondary and/or irrelevant. This kind of interaction is never limited by differences in gender, age, social status, religion or culture. In fact, this is not a place where differences necessarily represent any kind of problem, but rather the opposite, in the sense that ‘outer authority’ can only be the expression of something that is inherently unique.

Nine centered bonds are based on fractal connections for the movement of very specific information needed for the fulfillment of individual purpose in this life, and that is simply not something that is dependent on biology, but much more on the maturation and transformation of the spirit that we each embody.

For this, the differentiation of the individual mind is an absolutely necessary and unavoidable task, which is a process that can only start after de-conditioning has been completed and the Not-Self mind has been thoroughly disarmed in its capacity to distort the life and the evolutionary direction of the being.

Since the beginning of the Rave New Year we’ve been living through the most emotional times of the year with the Sun transiting all the emotional gates except gate 6, which is right at the other side of the wheel in the Quarter of Duality. Despite its overly dramatic appearance in the regular triggering of disharmony in homogenized relationships that they bring, the truth is that the sequence of these emotional gates in the Quarter of Initiation have nothing to do with bonding as medium for merging with the other, but much more with bonding as a way to be empowered in one’s own awareness of Self as an individual.

The whole purpose and potential of mind to be fulfilled in its self-reflective potential is derived from the ability of these six emotional gates to individuate the expansion of one’s own mental horizon by differentiating the style of your mental uniqueness through each and every social interaction that you have when you are guided by the inner sense of correctness that is aligned with the signature of your type.

We are all bonded in the alignment of fractal connections, and there is no way to miss on those that are there for you when you stop looking for what does not belong to you and simply surrender to your correctness as a passenger of the form and a watcher of your differentiated and potentially enlightening movie.

This is a seminar where I intend to use the composite chart provided by each participant in order to highlight repeated patterns of distortion that are predictable when certain design configurations come together in ignorance of the inherent differences in their mechanical and cognitive predispositions, and where I will also point at the potential for alignment that is entirely dependent on the level of consciousness of the two beings involved. Awareness is what makes the difference in the end. There is no such thing as ‘good’ or ‘bad’ designs when it comes to bonding and the continuity of bonding over time that we call a ‘relationship’.

This program works both as a clinic as much as a course in which I share my own experience in dealing with the dilemmas of transcending the seven centered mindframes and living out the nine centered life as a human being on a plane that never stops being mundane.

The length will vary in accordance to the number of students registered.
We will explore 3 charts in each 90 minute session.